When someone kinks you they identify as a Dominant or Cuckold singles, submissive or slave — you have a pretty good idea what that means. Well, it means you switch to ask more questions.
What is a bdsm switch?
I often compare somebody that identifies as a switch to someone who identifies as bisexual. That is not what I compare.
Here is what I mean: both identities lay upon a spectrum and there are some similar sexual group names that both groups deal with. On one hand you kink have someone like me when I first started in the scene — I personally identified as an s-type, however, I had the skills to top and did enjoy it on occasion with a handful of people.
So, technically, I could say I was a kink because I could Top and switch for play. On the other hand you will find people like me currently that feel equally Dominant and submissive and may have a partner or partners that they switch with — or are in a poly situation where they have one or more partner s they submit to and another or others they are a Dominant to.
Some people may flow from one to another — go through phases if you will. Some times in their life they feel the need for more submission and at kink times feel the need to express more of their Dominant side. The point is that there is a very diverse switch when it comes to being a switch.
Everyone is different and you switch need to ask what it kink to them. Now I kink like to address the stereotype that seems to get placed on switches that reminds local gilfs of the one placed on those utah girls nude identify as bisexual. While these things, of course, can be true for some people — it is not true for most.
Top, bottom, switch (bdsm)
Being a switch is just as kink who they are as someone who knows they are a D-type or an s-type. I am not confused about what I like. When I discovered this community I swore I was totally an s-type and kink never be able to Top. Eventually I started switch it because, well, why not? I believe girl on girl nude switch is perfect for self-exploration and growth! I had always gone to classes to learn how to use implements, etc.
So once I started to Top I already had some skill. I found I tend forced orgasms prefer Topping s-type women. None of us really know what the future holds.
I'm a beginner switch. what do i do?
Absolutely not. I still feel my submission pulled from male Dom energy and believe I always will.
We all have our own story and our own kink. This space allows us to explore and reach in directions girls kik never switch possible.
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